Allah is testing me again...

Late last night after doing the laundry, I decided to swich ON the PC and dwell on my site....

I received 2 personal messages, one was from a friend in Scotland while the other took me by surprise....its not from whom that surprises me...rather it was the content of it.

I realised that in my quest for better health, I was unintentionally hurting someone or so it seems.

The message wrote....

I'm writing this to give you a bit of a wake up call. What do you mean by posting of your daily meals and your shopping on multiply? Don't you think that you might hurt someone like your mum? Here you are having great meals everyday, cooking for your mother in-law while mum had a simple one. Think about that. Sorry that i have to say these because i can't take it anymore.

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I sat down for a long time..thinking....was I really hurting my mom?.... I went back to why I post up my daily meals in the 1st place...it was for my Anggun gang & Suria Mohd check on my diet during Ramadhan. The choices of food that I serve my family. I shared recipes with my other multiply friends too. I went to JB and also bought stuff for my mom. .. this is what I replied..

I am sorry that I hurt you. It was not intended. The menu statement is for Suria n Anggun members checklist. I have spoken to mum about her daily meals everyday...I call her everyday in fact she advises me on what to cook due to my diet. My mother inlaw was only with me for 3 days..now she has gone back to her home. I had many time offered mom to stay with me but she decline. There are many things that I try to do for her that you do not know, I do not want you to know in fact. Thank you for your concern. I know you mean well. I am not offended. You are my only elder brother and all of us are getting older as years goes by. I hope our relation can be better. Sincerely this is from my heart. You are my brother n I love you because of that. I hope we can all take better care of mum in future.

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I need reassurance.....Please tell me if I am indeed doing hurt to my mom... you can be blunt. I will not get offended.